Cynthia is a 15
year old daughter who is very sheltered, but she has dreams of playing high
school basketball. Her father is a 38 year old mega church pastor and her
mother is a stay at a home mom and a mother of the church. One Sunday day evening
while the family was driving home from church, Cynthia decided to ask her
father if she can try out for her high school basketball team. Her mother immediately said yes as long as
her grades stay at a 3 point, but her father overruled his wife decision and
said that no daughter of his was going to play basketball. Cynthia then cried
for an explanation from her father of why she can’t play basketball? Her father
replied, “Have you ever looked at those basketball girls? They look like, and
carry themselves like men. No daughter of mines is going to play basketball.” Her mother tried to talk to her father but her
father told his wife that the subject was not open for discussion. Therefore,
Cynthia started acting up at school by fighting; smoking drugs, suspension from
school, and her grades point average went from a 3 point to a 2 point.
Well one day after school, the high school women's
basketball coach saw Cynthia playing a pickup game, and he was amazed by her basketball
talent. He then pulled her to the side after
the game to talk to her about playing for her high school varsity team and
Cynthia told the coach she would love to play basketball for her school but her
father who is a preacher doesn't want his daughter playing basketball with
girls who dress up and act like men. Therefore, the coach approached her father
on Sunday right after service, and he convinced him that his daughter would be
all right and she wouldn't turn out gay. Fast forward some months later, his
daughter basketball team wins the state championship, and Cynthia is named MVP.
To top it off, Cynthia grades went from a 2 point to a 3.5 grade point average.
Also, Cynthia was spending a lot of time with a guy friend who played on the
boy basketball team and people viewed them as a couple . The family decided to go
out to eat to celebrate the state championship win and Cynthia being named MVP.
While eating, Cynthia stated she had some news that she wanted to tell her parents.
Her father smiled because he was waiting for his daughter to say she had a
boyfriend and he couldn't wait to meet him.
Unfortunately that wasn't the case, Cynthia then told her parents that
she’s gay. Her father immediately slammed his fist against the table in anger
and said, “I knew it! I knew if you played basketball that you would turn out
gay! I told your mother this would happen! What about that high school basketball
superstar boy you been hanging with?” Cynthia replied, “He’s gay too.” Her
father then screamed, “Aww shit! All you motherfuckas are gay!” This was first time Cynthia heard
her father curse. Her mother started to
cry and tried her best to calm her husband down, but her best wasn't good
enough. Her father then stood up from
the table and said, “You are an embarrassment to this family and an abomination
in the eyes of God. From this day
forward you're no longer my daughter or a part of this family. By the way, you tell my straight daughter she’s
welcome to stay at my house but as longs as your gay you stay the hell out of
my face and away from family.” Cynthia
started crying, “I'm sorry Daddy. I’m sorry! I’m still your baby girl! I’m still your baby
girl! I love you! I love y'all! Don't
leave me please don't leave me!” Everybody in the restaurant started to look at
them and the couple left their daughter crying in the restaurant and drove
home.
A couple of
minutes later Cynthia called her grandmother crying that her parents disowned
her because she said she told them she gay. Her grandmother then picked her up from
the restaurant and told her that she could live with her but she couldn't dress
like a boy, no rainbow stuff hanging in her house or have any gay girls in her
house either. Cynthia agreed to follow her grandmother rules, and every Sunday
when she attended her father church she’ll try to speak to her parents but they
intentionally ignored her. A couple of months went by that Cynthia didn't speak
to her parents or step in their house, and their harsh treatment mentally
started to drain her to the point that one day she decided that she had enough.
So, she went over to her parents’ house after school and banged on their door,
and screamed, “I want to come back home! I want to come back home! Let me in!”
Yet, her knocks and screams were ignored.
Cynthia cried as she walked to her grandma house, and once she stop
crying she decided to walk into her grandmother bathroom and she took 30 of her
high blood pressure pills. Once her grandmother made it home from work, she saw
Cynthia past out on the living room floor with her high blood pressure pills lying
next to her. Her grandmother then called
911 and Cynthia was rushed to the hospital. Once her parents arrived at the
hospital the doctors told them that Cynthia was in critical condition and they
wasn't for sure that she was going to make it. The family then held hands and
they prayed for Cynthia to make it, and she made it. Now the father is stuck with the decision to
choose his daughter or his religion? People help her father out? Lashing out!